Bad Kitty White PU Bondage Range

If there was ever going to be a range of bondage gear that could be considered festive, it would be the Bad Kitty White PU Bondage Range. Comprising of a collar and leash, wrist cuffs, ball gag, and flogger whip, there’s a bit of everything to make a kinky Christmas night in end with a bang.

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Vondage Silicone Bit Gag

I could have kicked myself from one end of the UK to the other when I realised – on the 6th of November – that the 1st of November was world vegan day. That would have been the perfect time to review my beauteous Vondage Silicone Bit Gag, but, following the trend that seems to be dominating my day to day life at the minute, I’m doing it late.

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Zado Leather & Chain Collar

Weird confession time! When it comes to pegging my lovely Fella, I dislike being collared. I don’t know what fucked up things my brain thinks up to make me feel that way, but I just don’t like it. It feels chokey and too restrictive, and it makes me feel like a fraud, kinda like I don’t deserve to wear a submissives piece while ‘acting’ dominant.

So I opt out of wearing the collar when he offers it to me.

The problem with that is, I then feel underdressed. I have on my corset or basque, stockings, unchained cuffs, and a sexy harness of course, but my throat, shoulders, and décolletage feels like too wide an expanse of bare skin.

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Bound Nubuck Ankle Restraints

If there was ever gonna be a range of bondage products to have the Pokemon effect on me (gotta catch ‘em all) it would be the glorious Bound Nubuck Leather range. These beautiful Bound Ankle Restraints are the only product I have from it, but I knew as soon as I pulled them from the package they came in that I needed all the other matching pieces.

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Tantus Black Widow Connoisseur Harness

Pegging. What a whole load of fun that business is. But even so, I will confess to having been afraid of it not a million months ago, because it made me do things that didn’t really sit right with me. It put me in a dominant position over the Fella, for a start, which is almost enough to ruin any play session for me, but that wasn’t the worst of it.

It took me a while to figure out what the unknown issue that kept making me lose my stride was, but with a little help from a friend, I finally did. My issue? Pegging the Fella made me feel hyper masculine. Because I’m a PCOS sufferer, I have a very awkward relationship with my femininity as it is, so running around the place with a silicone dildo poking out from between my legs, pinning the Fella to the bed, and being on the giving end of some pretty violent thrusting was making me subconsciously believe that I was doing the ‘mans’ work.

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Sh! Leather Wrist Restraint Cuffs

Before I tell you about my beautiful Sh! Leather Wrist Restraint Cuffs, I have a confession to make: despite my love for bondage, I really dislike being restrained. If the Fella catches me lying down – or if the evil bastard wants to tickle me – he pins my arms to my sides and holds my legs together with his knees, panic sets in and I literally scream until I cry.

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Being unable to move, or defend myself, or run wakes the survival instinct in me, making me desperate to escape and get away, even though I’m perfectly aware that I’m in no danger whatsoever. I hate feeling helpless and vulnerable so, needless to say, he doesn’t do it very often.

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Kink Craft Figure 8 Cuff Kit

Ever fancy making your own bondage gear? Well, I don’t know about you, but I never did until I learned that the fabulous Kink Craft existed. But even then, I liked the idea, but my hand eye coordination is crap, and I knew I’d fuck it up, so I just kept on liking from afar. I tried – and loved – their nipple sticks first, and when I was given the opportunity of trying something else, I plumped for the readymade version of the Figure 8 Cuffs, but changed my mind to the kit at the last minute.

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Bettie Page Wild ‘N’ Willing Wrist Cuffs

The Bettie Page bondage range is one of the sexiest I’ve ever come across, and I’m slowly gathering all of the pieces with a view to owning the full collection one day.

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One of the first pieces to be crossed off my wishlist was this set of Wild ‘N’ Willing Wrist Cuffs. I was lucky enough to win them in a blogger competition last year, and I’m hugely grateful to said blogger, and Lovehoney for sponsoring the prize. Continue reading “Bettie Page Wild ‘N’ Willing Wrist Cuffs”

Bettie Page Collar Me Set

I’m not a lifestyle Submissive, I’m a bedroom Submissive. In my day to day life, I’m an argumentative so-and-so, and it’s rare that I let anyone tell me what to do, though I have a good understanding that the things I say and do outside of the bedroom often have an impact on what goes on inside it later on in the day.

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Tease by Lovehoney 3 Piece Soft Bondage Kit

Leather. Steel. Buckles, padlocks, chains. These are the kinds of things you’d see hovering near the tops of the drawers in our bondage chest if you were to have a sneaky peek.

But there’s a lot of work that goes into setting up sessions that involve those things, and it’s nice to have a quick alternative to hand, just in case the mood for a bit of tie and tease takes our fancy, and we just don’t have the time to get out the big guns.

The solution is simple: the Tease by Lovehoney, 3 Piece Soft Bondage Kit.

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