Tantus Destiny Super Soft Dildo

Do you believe in destiny? I do, and I always have done, because it seems like, sometimes, some things are just meant to be. Things like me getting my paws all over the Tantus Destiny Super Soft, for example.

You may or may not know that Tantus are in the process of overhauling their silicone offerings. One product I had fixed firmly in my sights was the Raptor XL. A gloriously chubby, ballsy dildo that looked like it would take me to harness heaven as soon as the Fella strapped it on.

Thing is, I couldn’t find the Raptor XL in the UK, and any Tantus orders have to be carefully planned for those times when I have plenty of free dinero. Not just money enough to make orders big enough to ensure I get free delivery, but also to cover the fees my goodies would inevitably incur from buggery customs.

Tantus Destiny Rear View Tantus Destiny Side View

Things looked a little brighter once I started reviewing for Tantus, until the Raptor XL ended up in the clearance section. It was being discontinued, so no sense in Tantus sending it out for review. I’d more or less accepted that my orifices were never gonna get to experience that particular dildo, when lo and behold, the Tantus Destiny was released into the Super Soft line. After being so enamoured with the Vamp Super Soft, you can probably imagine my joy when I saw that Tantus had breathed new life into the Raptor! It was just the smaller version, not the XL, but I was so happy that it was being sent for review.

Soon, the Destiny was with me, and I prepared myself to make it a part of the love affair I have going on with Tantus dildos.

Tantus Destiny Takers Persepctive Tantus Destiny Givers Perspective

My Destiny is a glorious colour. I’m so into rose golds and bronzes at the moment, and the new copper colour that the Super Soft line comes in fits in with that so well. It’s deep, rich, and super shiny, even though this version of Tantus’ 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone is matte.

Said silicone sort of has the same appearance as sheets of gold leaf. Dull but shiny, glowing but not reflective. And even though it’s smooth, there’s a micro texture to it.  You can’t feel it with your fingertips, but if you run it over your lips (the ones on yo’ face) you can definitely feel that the surface isn’t flat.

Tantus Destiny Vein Detailing

Like I said, this silicone is Tantus’ Super Soft, and it boasts some serious squishy-squish. It’s uber flexible, bending in whichever direction you like with zero resistance. You can wobble it about, stretch it, squeeze it. But when you do squeeze it, it resists. Its softness is still apparent, but there’s also a firmness to it that promises it won’t act like a half-interested floppy cock when the time to fuck arrives.

Now, when it came to the Raptor XL, the size was what caught my eye. My Destiny is a smaller version of it, though I later discovered that there’s a Super Destiny Super Soft, too, which is bigger. Only just 0.75 inches bigger, but still. Yes, I do wish I had that one, but never mind.

Tantus Destiny in Hand

From the tip of the semi-realistic glans to the edge of the base, the Tantus Destiny measures up at 8 inches. Sounds like a biggie already, right? Well, it isn’t. Not length-wise, anyway, as only 5 inches of it is insertable. That’s a good thing for those who love anal play (especially strap-on sex), but worry about going in too deep. Some folk like literally travelling around all of the bends up in there, but just as many like to keep things shallow. Having a dildo with plenty of length makes pegging easier for me cos it gives me more to work with, but a controlled amount of insertion would ensure that I can fuck away to my heart’s content without worrying about taking things too far.

Not that the Fella would let me at him with the Tantus Destiny. The slimmest part of the shaft is right down near the compact balls and is a manageable 5 inches. But up top the gently defined glans has a girth of 6 inches. With such a rounded head that’s a lovely, stretching, filling size, so he won’t have it anywhere near his butt.

Tantus Destiny Frenulum Detail

I do love it in mine, though. I don’t even bother warming up, cos I adore that sharp shock of having something so blunt pushed inside of me. The uncomfortable sting of too much too soon, then the relief of the shrink once the head is fully in quickly turns to delight as the fucking begins and everything starts to feel magical.

But there is one problem for me with the Tantus Destiny, and that’s the length. I like the stretch of anal insertion, but I also like the depth. Not so deep that I give myself a bad belly, that kinda feeling feels best after vaginal penetration. But I do like it deep enough so that I feel just overfull, and so I can experience long, speedy strokes without the risk of the toy slipping out.

Tantus Destiny Balls

I don’t get that with the Tantus Destiny. It’s great at the start, when the thrusts are slow and soft, but once I’m reaching back and asking for a good pounding, the balls bash up against my ass and prevent the Fella from giving me that couple of extra inches I crave. Sure, I can reach orgasm using it and it feels awesome when I do, but I can’t deny that it does come up a bit short.

Tantus Destiny on its Side

Vaginally, the Destiny fares better. I can only take 6 inches comfortably, so the length of this doesn’t fall too short. The head stretches and fills, and there are enough inches for me to give my cervix a good hammering. Some don’t like that, but I really do. With such a round, soft head, I don’t feel the discomfort I usually do when stimulating my cervix with a silicone toy. And I don’t get any grating sensations on or around my pubic bone, either. I have tried G-Spotting with the Destiny, but it’s not easy. I think the head is too broad for that, and I can’t get enough pressure behind it to really grind as it just bends.

Tantus Destiny Tantus Stamp in Harness Compatible Base

As with all Tantus silicone, the Destiny can be boiled or bleached, popped in the dishwasher or washed in a sink of soapy water. I go with the last option, usually using toy cleaners after anal to get rid of any whiffy smells. Yes, silicone will pick up a scent even from the most whistling clean butt, it’s the nature of the beast.

For the first time ever, I can’t make my mind up about how I feel about a Tantus dildo. While I almost love it vaginally, I find myself looking for inches that aren’t there when I use it anally. Even though I come when I use it, there’s part of me that’s left frustrated. It wishes that the Destiny was bigger.

Tantus Destiny Front of Packaging Tantus Destiny Back of Packaging

But you. If you’re after a chubby, semi-realistic dildo that works perfectly well in a harness, or in a toy mount, or even in the hand, you should think about checking this one out. If you want filling but short, it’s your pal. And if you want soft and pliable, it certainly ticks those boxes. And if you want slightly bigger? It has a Super sibling. Whatever your reason may be, if you want to get your hands on a Tantus Destiny Super Soft, click the image below and go check it out.

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The Tantus Destiny Super Soft was sent to me by Tantus in exchange for an honest review. This in no way influences my opinions, which are now, and will forever be, my own. Affiliate links have been used in this post.

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