Weird confession time! When it comes to pegging my lovely Fella, I dislike being collared. I don’t know what fucked up things my brain thinks up to make me feel that way, but I just don’t like it. It feels chokey and too restrictive, and it makes me feel like a fraud, kinda like I don’t deserve to wear a submissives piece while ‘acting’ dominant.
So I opt out of wearing the collar when he offers it to me.
The problem with that is, I then feel underdressed. I have on my corset or basque, stockings, unchained cuffs, and a sexy harness of course, but my throat, shoulders, and décolletage feels like too wide an expanse of bare skin.